Saw this post by a friend of mine. I really think some women are born to be supermoms and superwives. I am trying to one too when I was told to stay at home to look after Asher, I know my roles, my duties and my responsibilities, I have to make sure
– the house maid is not creating havoc
– my mother is okay
– everyone has balance diet
– the children is well fed and happy
– the house is clean and tidy
Look very simple, right? I almost give up months ago when things didn’t go that well. I know I need to make sure my own life is “balance” as well. My very supportive hubby spent on things I want, like massages, hair spa, manicure packages and occasionally, some big price items. Some people may think that I am very spend drift but I am not, what’s wrong with a housewife to have beautiful nails? What’s wrong with a housewife to look good, dress prettily? For me, I want to feel good, look good. With good mood, I don’t pull long face, I greet my tired husband with my big smile in the evening instead of grumbling and complaining. No doubt, I am lucky to have a very understanding husband who appreciates the wife, knows how to and when to make the wife smiles.
Well, I truly believe all women especially moms deserve good rest, good time for themselves. Find time to pamper ourselves so that we rant less? I don’t want to be a old nagging woman complaining life, husband and every single thing, I definitely won’t want the same thought as the one who wrote the statement (of course I agreed most women slog for family) because, happiness is when you are with the one you love, living your life the way you want to, cherish everything and everyone and being appreciated. I certainly won’t want to lie in my peace box and know hack about “life”.
Don’t nag and whine. If you have to, try this – “breath in and out and text your hubby – I miss you.” If negatives posts keep popping up on my Facebook, I’ll have to hide “you” from timeline. 🙂